A few years ago I was 40 years old and single without a man in sight. Everyone had an opinion as to why I wasn’t married. I was too picky, too intimidating, too focused on my career, too neurotic, too analytical, and too sensitive. There had to be something wrong with me, right? Otherwise, I’d be married like everyone else my age.
It’s a lot easier to have a happy marriage when you marry a happy person. But too often we expect a relationship will make us happy. We live in “the whens.” “When I have a bf, I’ll be happy.” “When I get married, I’ll be happy.” “When I have a baby, I’ll be happy.” And […]